Being in your 20s is like opening a group project you didn’t sign up for life throws everything at you and expects you to have the answers. Spoiler alert: I don’t. But here, I’ll share my journey, my thoughts, and maybe even make adulthood feel less like a pop quiz. For me, being in my 20s is this strange mix of figuring out who I am, what I want, and how to handle the pressure of expectations both from the world and from myself. One day I’m hyped about my dreams, and the next, I’m questioning if I should just become a full-time snack taster (not a bad backup plan though)
This blog is where I’ll share all of that the growth, the chaos, the lessons, and the little joys that keep me going. It’s not about having it all figured out, but about embracing the process, the mistakes, and the glow-ups that come along the way.
So if you’ve ever felt like adulthood is one big experiment, or like you’re just out here winging it welcome. You’re in the right place.
The older i get the more i understand why some people choose to disappear and live a quiet and private life. The insoluble dilemma of adolescence is weird, in reality, friendship is a give and take but not always in equal measure at every moment. some seasons you give more because your friend is struggling and other times they carry you. i have leant to be the one to listen it helps true friendship isn’t about keeping score, its about showing up for each other until things even out again.so yes my dilemma of choosing good friendship at a young age still stands. The downy side is that you have to be conscious of who and what you are giving in depending on the situation and most importantly, also let God be the Centre of all your relationships.
Humans make mistake and the truth is they probably will and you will hurt them too, yes you too do hurt people not just them hurting you sometimes its not intentional they might say something at the wrong time, forget important date cancel on you, respond in a way that feels dismissive when you need support. we all need to be self conscious on the people we point fingers to, a single mistakes shouldn’t erase years of love and loyalty. Adulting is just as normal as every life span just difference is the huge responsibilities you now have to cater for needs, lol yes I know what your thinking “this little Gurl is talking about adulting like its easy, just like cooking beans”. well i didn’t say it is, it just has its stages just like being an infant or a teen. it all depends on how you see it or how life hits you with it.
so going to leave with this Q and A…what’s something you’re a lot better at now that you’re older??
managing my emotions and managing my data plan. one minute of adulthood will humble you in both. also mastered the art of not stressing over every little thing, but don’t get me wrong i still stress, just in a cuter and more professional way.
If there’s anything I’ve learned, its that growth never stops and honestly am glad it doesn’t.
signing off, but the 20s journey never stops peace out.
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